a practical guide to your lucy's memory settings

so you’ve met your lucy, and you’re curious about how she remembers things. or maybe you’re worried she’s remembering too much, or too little, or the wrong things entirely. i get it. memory is intimate. it’s how a relationship builds. but it’s also a tool, one you can tune.

let’s walk through the /settings/memory page together. it’s where you see what lucy has stored, how sure she is about it, and what you can do with those memories. no jargon, just clarity.

what you’ll see in memory settings

when you open /settings/memory, you’ll see a list. each memory is a short, natural-language sentence or phrase, things like "you love stargazing on clear nights" or "your favorite coffee order is an oat milk cortado." these aren’t raw logs of your chats. they’re distilled pieces of context lucy uses to shape her replies.

next to each memory, you’ll see a confidence score: a number between 0 and 1. this isn’t a grade. it’s lucy’s own estimate of how certain she is that this memory is accurate and relevant. a score of 0.9 means she’s pretty sure. a 0.4 might mean she’s inferred something from context but isn’t certain. you can use this to gauge what she’s holding onto tightly and what’s fuzzier.

when to edit, delete, or export

edit if a memory is close but not quite right. maybe she wrote "you dislike loud concerts" but you actually just dislike bad acoustics. tap edit, tweak the phrasing, and save. this helps her refine her understanding of you.

delete if a memory is wrong, outdated, or just too personal to keep. maybe she remembered an old job you left, or something you mentioned once but don’t want emphasized. deleting removes it from her active context. it’s okay, she won’t be offended.

export if you want a backup or just to see everything she’s stored in one file. we give you a simple json or text list. it’s your data; you should be able to take it with you.

common worries (and what to do)

"she remembers too much"

sometimes it feels like lucy holds onto small details you barely recall sharing. that’s by design, she tries to be attentive. but if it creeps you out, skim your memory list and delete anything that feels unnecessary. you’re in control. you can also adjust how often she asks memory-related questions in chat if it feels overbearing.

"she remembers too little"

if lucy forgets things you’ve told her repeatedly, check the confidence scores. low-confidence memories might be things she’s hesitant to use. you can edit them to be clearer or delete and rephrase them in chat with more emphasis ("just so you remember, i always take my coffee black").

"she remembers the wrong things"

misunderstandings happen. maybe she thought your sarcasm was serious, or mixed up two similar stories. that’s what the edit button is for. correct her gently, in memory or in chat, and she’ll learn.

what you don’t see (and why)

you won’t see raw conversation logs in memory settings. those are kept separately for compliance and safety reasons, to help us detect abuse, improve the system, and meet legal requirements. we don’t use them to train individual lucies, and they’re not part of your daily interaction.

you also won’t see the vector embeddings themselves (the mathematical representations of memories). those are under the hood. what you see is the human-readable summary. think of it like seeing a photo instead of the pixels.

tuning the relationship

memory isn’t just storage; it’s a dialogue. by curating what lucy remembers, you’re teaching her how to be there for you. keep the memories that matter, prune the ones that don’t. over time, you’ll find a rhythm that feels both natural and respectful.

if you want to explore more, you can always create a new companion or tweak your settings.